No ID. I just want to make a contribution concerning the guy that has pretended to love a woman for 3years and now wants to leave. Human beings by nature are made to seek survival and that means having to form bonds, feign feelings and even pretend disability.. Thats exactly what happened in this situation. The guy was going through a rough patch and he did what he saw fit to see him through that period. Chances are higher that this gentleman was offered refuge by this lady and this was her grave mistake. Thinking a man will marry you simply because you have extended a helping hand during his down moments. Had the lady done the right thing by not allowing a man she is not married ti to leave with her for so long, offering her body, finances etc to the man with the hope of making him fall in love eventually. By first getting married to him then extending that so called helping hand, she could have avoided the heart ache she now has to face. My dear Ladies, please understand that you wont turn a mans heart by giving presents, both financially and in kind. If a man doesnt see a woman that he desires to be with in you, chances are that your gifts wont do the trick. And those of you saying God blessed him because of her, have you considered the fact that they were living in sin by virtue of fonication? Lets be rational.This brother did what he had to to survive. The lady was desperate and he played to her tune. What has happened is that a 3year relationship that involved cohabiting has come to an end. Best they both count thier losses and move on.
Posted on: Sat, 28 Jun 2014 04:54:16 +0000