No doubt, some people bother you by their frequent criticisms. Nothing seems to please them in the world. none seems to be saved from their criticisms. They always have comments to pass. These people scrutinize everything, be it great or small. You can say the same about someone who expects everyone to be exemplary, thus, he expects proofs for everything we say, write etc, he expects his wife to keep the house 100% clean twenty-four hours a day. He also expects his wife to keep the children nice and clean all day. If he is visited by guests, he expects her to cook the best dishes. If he sits with her, he expects her to talk about the best topics. He expects the same from his children. He wants them to be perfect at everything, excellent with his friends and with whomever he meets on the street or a marketplace, etc. If anyone of them falls short, he would consume him by his speech, over-criticise and repeatedly pass comments, until people become bored of him. This is because he cannot see on a white page but a black spot. Such people usually punish themselves by their nature. Their closest friends dislike them and avoid their company. By saying that, however, I am not suggesting that you should not advise others, or that you should remain silent over their mistakes. Rather, you should not scrutinize everything people do, especially in worldly matters. Learn to overlook such matters. People dislike too much criticism.
Posted on: Thu, 12 Sep 2013 13:15:43 +0000
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