Not all relationships are meant to be. They do not have to end on bad terms. We terminate our Ex as if they are truly a horrible person. Remember when you first got together? Everything was going smoothly...The love was there and life seemed wonderful. What happens is we learn more about the person over time that signals to us Hmm maybe this person isnt the right one but instead of leaving and moving on....Instead of remaining friends and leaving on good terms just like when you first met...... We push the limits. We stay because of how comfortable and convenient it will be. We stay because we are afraid to be alone. We stay because it seems scary to Restart ..Especially if you had kids. There is a possibility that you guys started a relationship so you can learn about yourself a little more. You learn a valuable lesson every relationship. The lesson is not that they are a Piece of Shit. You possibly were meant to be just good friends that pushed it to far...Did you ever stop and think for a second and ask yourself...Do you see yourself dying with this person? We often hop into relationships without building a solid foundation. We present the best You in the beginning. You are interviewing to be together and the interview last a few months. You put on your best act. You do all the little things to attract the partner. You blow their mind with Love and Affection but deep down inside....One person isnt feeling it....But they stay together because of how good they are being treated. One person is giving it 120% and the other is giving it 50% or 80% occasionally when they feel their partner is realizing the lack of commitment. We want what we cant have and once we get what we want it becomes old news. The curiosity is over and the flame is burning out...The arguments arise and the fights begin. The torture and abuse begins Verbally and Emotionally. We do this to ourselves because we Settle for the love we think we deserve. You deserve to be treated the way you are treating your partner. If you feel as if the relationship is 1 sided....You speak up and communicate. If you do not communicate effectively you are going to live in misery with a broken heart wondering why your partner wont treat you the way you deserve. The truth is...Either they dont love you with all of their heart and they dont want to lose you or They are playing and using you. Yes there are some other circumstances but Im speaking about a specific group. This will resonate with those that need it. If you are fighting and arguing constantly in the first few months/years......Well how do you expect to last forever? People dont change on your time. If they loved you and realized your value they would give you the treatment you deserve. Ask your partner right now. Why do you love me? Why are you with me Do you want to die with me? 2015. Lets get real. Lets repair these Broken - ships or sail to a New-Ship.
Posted on: Sun, 04 Jan 2015 01:32:25 +0000
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