Not everyone is going to be able to understand or empathize with how you feel or what your experience of a situation for you has been, even if they have lived it with you. What is most important in this situation is that you can understand and empathize with yourself, and you can have compassion for your experience because at the end of the day it is your own understanding and compassion that hits closest to home. It may not feel good when we really want someone we love to deeply understand how we feel about something, but it just isnt always a possibility. When you come to realize this it is best to stop trying to get your point across. When you have exhausted all your efforts that is when it is time to just let it go. After the conversation is over do your best to live effectively within the challenge. Your judgments of yourself are the most important. Be proud that you tried your best to communicate your experience, that you had the courage to say what was true for you and then move forward. Sometimes time is the only thing which brings a solution. Just remember that you are human. You are going to have feelings others do not like or want you to have but that doesnt make your feelings go away and nor does it make them wrong. Just do you. Express yourself, whether it be hurt, fear or anger. They are human emotions. The best way to love yourself is to learn to live effectively while you are in them. They will pass.
Posted on: Sun, 11 Jan 2015 19:03:28 +0000
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