Not trying to be snide or snippy, not trying to start arguments or infer that any have been started, not trying to say anything bad, but.... It just seems to me, that when I want to include my girlfriend in things, some of my friends have a hard time accepting that. Let me give you all a little background on me. It has been literally years since Ive been in a relationship. Not just any kind of relationship, but one in which my significant other makes me feel wanted, loved, even attractive on a daily basis. A relationship that makes me feel good about who I am. She consoles me when I dont achieve the things i set out to achieve, and builds me up when I need it, and I try to do the same for her. Because of this, I want to spend more and more time with her, because for the first time in a long time I am happy. And I want to share this happiness with the people I consider friends. Sadly, with the exception of a few, when I bring up hanging out together in my usual hangouts, excuses are made in order to not hang out. I understand there are concerns when a 4 year old is introduced into a group of people who dont normally hang out with children, I get that. However, lately, it seems more and more that because of the child the mother isnt accepted either, and thats just shitty. I tend to even understand that my time with friends is diminished by my time with my girlfriend, and this too could be a factor, I wont discount that. But the actions as of late have put me ill at ease to even hang out with friends because I want to talk about my happiness. I want to share it with everyone I know. When shes excluded that hurts me, deep down. I dont know how to be the person I was before she and I got together, and I dont really want to be. Before her I felt like just another bald, fat guy who had a good sense of humor and an interesting outlook on life, and i learned to be content in my normal hum drum life because my friends were my support group, now instead of hum drum, Im truly happy, and i want to share that happiness with my friends, so, dont hold back, tell me how you really feel, why the sudden change? Is it me or is my completely normal need to be loved taking away my friends who were there for me when I was miserable?
Posted on: Tue, 02 Dec 2014 05:44:11 +0000
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