OK, I generally dont go off on people and I do my best to avoid drama. That being said, I have to rant but, its only because I cant stand to see the hurt that doesnt seem to matter to anyone else. This is going to be long but not a word of it will be an untruth. To all of those that want to talk shit about Candice Kay, let me set something VERY straight for you. Not for one second did she ask to be raising a baby without his daddy. So, of course she needs help from those that are supposed to be her family and friends. I provide Candice and Mason with a stable, safe and drama free home. I do this because I love them both and I know Keegan would want that. I can go to sleep at night knowing they are safe and I dont have to worry that they are without what they need. This last year has been full of unexpected heart ache and loss that cannot be healed. Can I ask how many of you checked on Candice yesterday or in the last few days, to see how she is on the anniversary week of Keegans death? Now, how many of you have made her feel unwelcome or talked shit about her? I have seen and been shown some of the judgmental things that have been said and sent to her from so called family and acquaintances. Before you are so quick to judge for her mistakes, what did you do as a young person just starting out? Were you dealt the unfair hand that she has? We all make mistakes whether you care to admit them or not. When she asks for help, or for someone to come get her to be included in a family function, or whatever it may be, its to help better herself and be able to do the things she wants to for her son. She is your daughter, granddaughter, cousin, niece, step-child, or friend. No one should come between those relationships because of jealousy or judgments. I get to see the hurt in her eyes when she is left out, denied or talked about. Not the ones that cause the hurt. It breaks my heart for her. Now that I have said my peace, know that Candice will not know of this post until I hit the post button. She deserves support and compassion from those of us that were put in her life. I will be the first to tell her if I think she is making a bad choice but I am also the one that wont let her feel alone and will do ANYTHING I possibly can to enable her to grow and learn as she is entitled to do. Make sure your past is perfect before you try to delegate what you think is right for her. If anyone would like to comment be prepared for an honest reply. And remember that God gave us the people in our lives and He is the only one to judge any of us. He will also take our loved ones to live in a better place while we live sadly without them.
Posted on: Sat, 13 Dec 2014 20:19:45 +0000
Trending Topics
Recently Viewed Topics
© 2015