Okay, I feel obligated to put this out there.... Folks get upset if you refer to someone as fat. It hurts just as bad to be called too skinny. I dont have this problem now as Im nearly 40, have popped out babies & am a normal, healthy size. However, growing up I was a stick. I ATE & ATE & ATE & ATE & could NOT gain weight. I was stuck at a size 0 until my mid 30s. I even went to taking Creatine to gain weight & was unsuccessful. Girls were cruel!! You need to eat a steak, Youre TOO skinny, She must be anorexic, Maybe shes bulimic.... Let me tell you, I ate like a grown man, my body just processed the food at breakneck speed (ask Clay Hair or Traci Myers Dillard) as they KNOW me, have known me since an early age & can attest for HOW much I ate. Yet, I was continually and constantly judged & it HURT... Not all size 0s want to be a size 0, not all overweight folks want to be overweight. There could be underlying medical issues, some have faster metabolisms than others, some are conscientious about eating healthy & diligently work out. Who are you to judge who is too fat or too skinny. It is NOT your body. It is not your life & it is NOT your business!!!! If one likes to have curves, so be it! If one chooses to be thin, so be it! As long as THEY are happy & feel good about themselves, your opinion does not matter. I see a lot of folks standing up for the overweight (& I AGREE with them), but it is NOT okay to judge or bully a girl b/c she is thin & attractive. Ive received emails from many attractive girls who get so much hate mail b/c they are pretty & hunt. Its just not right or fair. & I felt the need to stand up for those who are unspoken for! Just be YOU, be REAL & embrace yourself no matter how big or how small you are.... YOU are a DIAMOND & no one can break you dear!!!
Posted on: Wed, 23 Jul 2014 15:13:37 +0000
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