Okay look... If I ever see you out in public, or first meet you, and I have a mean look on my face, I am SORRY. Seriously, I DO apologize. I am not a mean person I swear, I am just introverted and its hard for me to socialize. However, if you are ignorant enough to judge me by my face, and even go as far as to rudely accuse me of things, or even THREATEN to physically harm me, then what does that say about YOU? I mean Im sorry but if youre so quick as to judge someone by their FACE, that makes you the judgemental jerk does it not? I am sick to death of my shyness and social awkwardness being taken personally by certain people, and blown out of proportion. That being said Im sick of people being judgemental at all, of those who struggle with social anxiety. I know I say this a lot, but I am sick of it. You DO realize people with social anxiety CANT HELP IT RIGHT? I mean its not that hard of a concept to understand. And when you judge them for it, and make them feel bad for it, you make the problem worse. Judgemental people add to the stress of socializing, and wanting to be outgoing... I have apologized publicly I dont know how many times, and even friends are starting to turn against me because of it, and I frankly dont appreciate it. I am a nice person if you get to know me. Its just hard for me to warm up to people at first. I am not being rude or mean I am trying to get used to certain situations. Whether or not YOU take it the wrong way, and how YOU act reflects more poorly on YOU than it does me. I am not judging people when I go out in public. NO shy person does whether you believe it or not. But YOUR actions and how you perceive them will make it clear what type of person you really are, and that can be pretty sad if you react to them badly. Just keep that in mind before you judge someone.
Posted on: Wed, 15 Oct 2014 23:43:54 +0000
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