On the wedding day, the man is called the bridegroom. Theres a reason for that. Take that word apart and it becomes pretty obvious Hes meant to be the BRIDE- GROOM. Thats not just a ceremonial designation. Its actually a job description. The job of the husband is to groom his wife. It subtly connotes an agricultural activity: to tend, to care for, to help improve, to supply essentials for growth and to bring out the best. The husband is not meant to be the bride-groom on just the wedding day (and night). Thats what he should be for the rest of his life! He should never stop tending, developing and inspiring his bride to the fullness of her potentials. So young Man, before you start delivering your manifesto, take a good look at your toolbox and ask yourself Is my grooming kit complete? What exactly do I have to offer beyond things? Am I prepared to groom this vine or am I just craving its fruits? And dear young lady, before you get carried away with whatever youre seeing, ask yourself:does he have what it takes to help me become a better PERSON?. (Note the question: its not just about if he can give you better THINGS). Whats his effect on your PERSON thus far? Are you becoming a better woman because of your association with him? Is there more clarity in your life? More discipline? More kindness? A better walk with God? Be wise!
Posted on: Tue, 01 Apr 2014 15:57:56 +0000
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