One of the hardest parts about being a part of groups of women and - TopicsExpress



          

One of the hardest parts about being a part of groups of women and men who have been in abusive relationships with personality disordered people is, they have been so beat up on mentally and emotionally that they feel like this is all they deserve. They feel like they will never be able to have a healthy person! The first step of being able to pick healthy people is taking a look at yourself and seeing why you pick people that are dysfunctional and need a caregiver. ME......mine is The fact that I feel intimidated by successful men. I choose men who are not successful and who need a mother because then I can control the situation. it is backwards thinking because really in the end you are controlling anything and they are controlling you with manipulation and abuse! It has taken me three years of really taking a look at myself to see that I deserve better and that I am worthy of a man who has his life together! I am worthy of love, unconditional love and I am worthy of respect. I wish everyone coming out of these relationships would realize that we have to work on ourselves and find out why we pick the people that we do. Its sad :0(
Posted on: Sun, 09 Nov 2014 16:39:55 +0000

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