One of these days love will find me. But as I have gotten stronger, not physically but emotionally, my standards have become higher. I am stronger now!! A year makes a whole difference in your views on life and who you want in it!!! I used to feel like I needed a man, someone to support me, to help me, and when you feel like you NEED one, you accept ANYONE. But as I have become more independent, I understand that I can hold my own. That a single mom can thrive and succeed. And with that I have come to realize that I just dont want a supporter of my own dreams, but a partner. One who can run beside me...in ALL things. Who can see my vision and my goals and have similar ones. To me there is no better satisfaction then knowing your partner runs parallel to you rather then perpendicular. And I know that I CAN wait, that I have the strength to do so. I used to be one who would wonder why I didnt get a date, or why men werent interested me.. and when they did become interested Id become so excited that I had some attention that I didnt care what kind of man they were. I fell on my face to do whatever they wanted. It has taken me years to find the knowledge within myself that I am worthy and that it is...I WHO PICKS. That it is I who decides who is worthy of MY Attention. That it is they who should prove themselves that they want to be with me. I think many of us women forget about this, we dont want to be alone and that we want to be loved that we accept anyone and we dont let the man fight for us. We are worthy.
Posted on: Sun, 25 May 2014 19:11:20 +0000
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