Outrageous School Policies: What You Can Do There was a lesson to be learned in the case of Zachary Christie, a 6-year-old first grader in Delaware who brought a camping utensil along with his lunch. The tool included a folding fork. Unfortunately for Zachary, it also included a folding knife. That automatically made it a dangerous instrument under his school districts rule, which had zero tolerance for any dangerous instruments brought to school. Zachary was sentenced to 45 days in the districts alternative school. But following outrage from parents and lawmakers alike, the school board allowed him to return to school and amended the policy to include only a 3- to 5-day suspension for kids caught with dangerous instruments, if they are in kindergarten or first grade. The incident raises questions about what parents should do if they encounter a school rule they think is unfair. Heres how parents can flex their muscle at schools around the country: Don’t Be a Stranger Diane Cargile, president of the National Association of Elementary School Principals, says parents can and should be vital partners with schools in setting up rules. Principals and administrators want input from parents when rules are being discussed, so dont wait until theres a problem to show up at school. We want parent involvement,” she says. “Thats how schools are made.” Know the Rules The handbook that goes home at the beginning of the school year is worth reading, says Kathy Cowan, director of marketing and communications for the National Association of School Psychologists. The truth is that most parents often dont know the rules and policies, she says. Parents these days are so busy and may be working two jobs. I dont think its because they dont care; its because they are busy. Prep Your Child Once youve gone through the handbook, its time to sit down with your child and emphasize the rules you think are most important to keep in mind. For older kids, walk through the entire handbook together. In some cases, a student breaks a rule he didn’t know existed. Also, reading rules together works as a deterrent in itself, because the child knows he can’t “play dumb” and say he didn’t know the rules. Speak Up Whether you have an issue with the school rules beforehand, or after an incident happens like the one with Zachary and his camping tool, dont hesitate to go to the school administration, school district or parent-teacher association. It can be difficult for some parents, who may be busy or feel intimidated, Cowan says. But a really good school administration is open to conversations with parents. Changing school rules takes some pushing, but it’s not impossible. Lobby Against Zero Tolerance Zero-tolerance policies are rules that require a certain punishment often without allowing the school principal or administrators any discretion, and Cowan argues that they aren’t good for schools. “If the parent community doesnt understand the consequences of zero tolerance and stand up to it, then zero tolerance will live forever, she says. At its best, zero tolerance is a tool schools use to shield themselves from liability. Both Cowan and Cargile agree that parents often have more power to affect rules at their childrens schools than they realize. Educate yourself about the rules now, and you may save yourself lots of headaches later.
Posted on: Mon, 13 Oct 2014 07:03:10 +0000
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