Over a 3 years ago, I began training my mind to process misunderstandings, disputes, passive aggressiveness and a persons intent. I did this by being quick to listen and slow to speak. When any of those elements arise, when there is a major dispute, I may wait a day or two to speak my peace on the matter so I give myself time to process the entire situation. The very first thing I do is assess my own part in what happened. Then I dissect the rest. I review what I could have done better, if that is possible and then I speak on the matter if it is worth speaking on. Some people will attempt to make me speak up at the moment of dispute. I have to say that when I have accommodated those pressuring me to speak, it never ends well. Some are able to speak directly to the situation without the need for processing, but I realize that the mentality that I acquired in my beloved Detroit has forced me to utilize great restraint when needed. But I will always keep my D card present when I need to pull it.
Posted on: Sat, 01 Nov 2014 00:23:28 +0000
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