Para sa ni confess kung unsaon daw pagkahibaw kung nahigugma ang babae ninyo ug kung nag cheat ba ang babae diri nalang nako e post kay taas kaayo di na dawaton sa comment lol. I hope maka tabang ni gamay sa nag pa tabang.. :) -Admin How to Tell if a Girl Cares About You: Look for any eye contact. Most girls will show a long gaze at you until you look at her; then she will quickly look away from you. These are signs that shes interested. Nine times out of ten, if a girl stares at you, she likes you, and is possibly even daydreaming about you! -Of course, dont come out and ask her. She will probably become shy and embarrassed. Your safest bet is to just look at how she stares at you. Here are things to look for: -Is she blushing when you notice her? -Does she smile back at you? -Does she often straighten herself up more to get your attention? Find out from friends if she asks about you, or says anything to them about you. If you are a little shy about asking her friends directly, have your friends ask her friends. Just beware that your friends could not be telling you the full truth. They will just tell you an idea of if she mentioned you. Watch for her to make an effort to be around you, such as watching your sporting events or joining clubs or groups you are in. This will show that she actually likes and cares for you if she is around you as much as she can be on a particular day. Talk to her if you have a chance, and listen to the types of questions she asks. If she focuses on what you like, or what you think about things, she is trying to learn more about you. Notice how many times she tries to touch you. If its more than five times a day, versus one or zero times a day, theres a greater chance she likes you. -Remember that girls are confusing. She could just want to be friends if she gives you a hug, but if the hug is longer than 20 seconds, there is a higher chance that she is into you. ============= How to Tell if a Girl Cheats About You: She pays more attention to her phone than you. If you inevitably spend every dinner glaring at her as she pivots between various social networks and replies to every text message that springs up, dont be too quick to write her behavior off as a sign of the times. Sure, were all guilty of being so overly engrossed in our digital lives that we neglect the present moment. But if she makes a continual habit of talking to her Twitter followers more than you during dinner dates, it may point to her lack of investment in the relationship, not just her fleeting attention span. We dont want to say she might be spending your night together making plans with someone else, but stranger things have happened. Shes less interested in s_x. Every couple has s** routines. Maybe three times a week is your norm; maybe you get it in every night. But if your norm inexplicably changes, and you find youre battling a new excuse every night, you may want to investigate what lies at the root of the issue. Is she really too tired (every damn night)? Has your s** life just gotten that boring? Or, is she simply disinterested in humping you...because shes getting it elsewhere? Were not saying you should draw wild conclusions from a single not tonight, but be aware of what normal looks like so you know when your s** schedule diverges from it, and take the time to discuss what the real issue is. Her social calendar is suddenly bursting at the seams. Saturdays used to be your day. Nothing was said, no plans were made; it was just assumed that youd be spending time together. But lately, it seems something more important to her comes up each week. Your weekly dates are no longer set in stone, and everything and everyone else takes precedent. If you see your quality time slowly dwindling away, it absolutely points to her waning interest in the relationship, and it could mean she has transferred her affections elsewhere, or is at least entertaining the thought. Independence is healthy, but a new-found focus on partying with her friends could mean shes putting herself out there again and is seriously considering pulling the plug on your love. She accumulating new clothes at higher rates than usual. If your girl goes into makeover mode and tears through the mall like Sonic the Hedgehog on a mission, you should take notice. Most women have an affinity for retail, but if her shopping takes on a rabid focus seemingly out of nowhere, you should ask yourself why she has become invested in reinventing herself. Again, its about a departure from the norm. If your girl normally puts on a full face of make-up to run errands, dont think twice about her putting on mascara to go to the dry-cleaners. But if shes a sweats-and-Chapstick type of chick, and she suddenly starts taking an hour to get ready to go out (particularly, without you), you have a reason to worry. Shes overly concerned with your whereabouts. Remember when you first met and every day was peppered with a constant exchange of flirty, borderline-salacious text messages? Its normal for your text game to fall off from that initial honeymoon phase, but if she takes hours to respond without explanation, and cant muster up an ounce of enthusiasm when she does, its not a good look for your relationship. Theres a real possibility shes under stress at work, or just in an emotional rut. But if youre able to rule that out (which you can do with a few simple questions) and you notice she rarely takes the initiative to text—and if she does, its to ask where you are—she might be tracking your whereabouts for less than innocent reasons. We hate to be the ones to say it, but shes not suddenly interested in the minutiae of your day—shes covering her ass. She isn’t making plans for the future. If you look in your iPhones calendar, are the upcoming months looking unusually devoid of commitments? None of her 200 cousins has a wedding planned, youve yet to confirm any plans for your accrued vacation days, and hell, you havent even heard about one of those double dates with her best friend she usually forces you to pencil in each month. Its possible shes overwhelmed at work or otherwise preoccupied; its also possible shes plotting an escape and is hesitant to extend any invitations knowing shell eventually have to rescind them. Or, even worse, shes too invested in someone new to realize shes been neglecting your shared social schedule. She flirts with other people in front of you. This points to larger issues of being attention-starved, having an insatiable ego, and otherwise being insecure. But more notably, if shes comfortable batting her eyes at other people in front of you, what is she doing when youre not there? She starts pointing fingers in your direction. If your previously secure girlfriend suddenly goes into paranoia mode, you should take notice. If she snaps at you over seemingly innocent actions (basically, anything on this list, but in small, completely commonplace increments), she might be trying to throw you off her scent. By focusing your attention to your perceived failings, youll be less apt to interrogate her about her actual foul play, which is just the way shed like it. She makes a point to say she’s unhappy. Its easy to misinterpret any of the aforementioned signals as infidelity when in actuality, there is a perfectly reasonable explanation. But, if you start noticing that the signs are slowly piling up, and shes recently admitted shes no longer happy in the relationship, you might be on the verge of a full-fledged confession. Guilt is a tricky emotion, and she might feel that by fessing up to her flailing satisfaction in the relationship, she is offering you (and herself) an explanation for her selfish actions. Or, she could be gearing up to act on a long-held impulse, and making her excuses in advances so she can later utter, I told you so, with aplomb. She falls off the radar for large gaps of time. So, she disappeared for five hours for the third time in a week and blamed it on falling asleep, and you actually believed her? Thats cute. We guess what they say is true—love is actually blind. We hate to be the ones to pry those stubborn eyelids open, but if your girl goes M.I.A. for days at a time, you need to stop making excuses and start getting answers.
Posted on: Thu, 10 Jul 2014 04:29:07 +0000