Parents and future parents, this one is for you. I hope you find it educative. Chris N Okafor wrote: When a child is sturbon, i dont think it is a crime. It simply means he has a mind of his own and is convinced about his stand. Its indeed a rare gift that is often really needed later in life but which looks rebellious in his early life. The solution is not to smack him at every action and forcing him to accept views he does not believe in, rather its important to try to look at things from his point of view and see his reasons, then you can amend his reasoning and he will accept with the same passion he was against it beforehand. A stubborn child is a great gift, in the near future, their nature (if you have not canned it out) enables them to take a firm decision and stand by it. They make personal policies and stick to it. They are not blown around like dead leaves by the wind, they are always rooted and firm. So if you think u have got a though child, halleluia! Youve got a great gift. Though it comes now in raw form, you (parent) are needed to refine it and put it to good use. Dont just lift the cane, look a little deeper (not that you wont use the cane at all, even timid children need them at times).
Posted on: Tue, 29 Jul 2014 15:01:51 +0000
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