Peace! Theres No compulsion in Islam. Islam also means Life. Freedom Justice and Equality is the standard we human beings stand for. This should be also with the concerns of Relationships between man and woman. Regardless of the male genetic makeup as the man, his will shouldnt be forced upon no one, especially his selection of a mate (wife) that he (I) see fit to being as one with for the remainder of my days above ground. What would be the purpose for wooing if this was mans only way of uniting with a woman as a lifelong mate? She has to also do her part in communication in response to his wooing her. She should also have a say in the area of making it known to her interest in him (me), so that this animal, beast nature is not the way man would be influenced to behave. I also believe that this behavior happens with us Supreme Beings due to the hell forced upon our lives by ourselves and others since being here in the concrete jungle of North America. Relationships has been so unfortunately ill, that we become hesitant to fully and completely embrace another that is offering to share a love with us. Ive time and again experience the discomforts of feeling a bit hurt and disappointed with the potential mate running out of the beginning stages of unifying for the lifelong commitment. No red flags. Just the responsibility to being about the making of the bond complete. Even at this point no excuses can be used, just FEAR becomes the dictator of the course he and her are attempting to enter (intercourse) into with one another. I can see where this behavior of action taken by the male lion would be necessary in concerning the female rejection of him solely due to her FEARS from past hurt in relationship(s). Hes like, Dang it, woman! Cant you see that Im gonna be good and true to you? She would have to remain in the union of direct committing to one another longer than she would when becoming dictated by her FEARS from past experiences, if ever receiving the eventual truth of how he feels for her to being the only woman in his life. I still believe that when she truly receives the truth of his desire, wants and needs of her, she will eventually TRUST in her COMPASSION and be about the business of making the attempt to coming together successful and complete. This belief makes me wish that there was a way to immediately transmit exactly what I feel/think of her into her so she would be able to realize (without doubts) the truth of her status with me so she could make her decision to commit based upon that awareness. Since theres no such devices that can bring about the above wish, I can only pray that Ill be united with that right woman who understands the circumstances of this sojourn in the wilderness of North America. No Compulsion!
Posted on: Sun, 14 Sep 2014 00:44:02 +0000
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