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“People say things like “well at least he didn’t beat you.” And I never knew what to say to that. That statement is a guilt trip. It is no different than saying …“well you should be grateful that he didn’t do anything violent like some fathers (husbands or mothers) do”. People say things like this as though the good about the fact that he didn’t beat me cancels the bad about the rest of what he did or didn’t do. Good does not cancel bad. Good is Good and Bad is Bad. Two different things and it helped me to stop seeing one as cancelling the other. ~ Darlene Ouimet
Posted on: Tue, 15 Jul 2014 13:40:00 +0000

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