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People think we do this because we are on a lark. But we lose so much that is just silly. I dont expect my family to ever accept it. I will remain cordial but they dont know how much it really hurts. We are lucky to have friends who can accept us and love us. Be there for the kids. They really didnt have any input in all this. They were told what they would do and how they would think around you. Some will eventually see the error in that...it could take years. It seems that in any change, someone has to try and poison the children against the other. Why? You can hate all you want but why make your children hate or fear? But in regard to family, I still love them even if they dont understand, but I have to love me more because I have to live with me for the rest of my life (and trust me that is a scary proposition when I get up in the morning. Good thing I knew me when I was pretty). Put away preconceived and ill-conceived ideas about the trans community. We live a life of confusion. We have to fight with ourselves daily. Make ourselves happy and thus be a positive light; Or make the world happy and spreading negativity. We are really no different than anyone else. We just have something inside us that makes us feel we are incomplete and we often fight that for a whole life. So we make a decision, to be happy. I am sorry you cannot see that I am really the same good person I always was. That the packaging is all that has changed. That the heart and soul is still the same person you loved and protected and admired. Maybe even better. I am sorry you cannot see the real me. But thats OK. I love you no matter what you believe, ill-conceived or not. Remember life is short. As Jim Morrison said No one gets out of here alive. I dont know when it will end, I hope that I have some time left. I try not to hold grudges even when someone hurts me. It is a waste of my time. I have to please me. If you believe that your higher being would somehow make something imperfect, then you really need to find a new higher being. Because if they are your Father, Fathers love their children...not how their children look. Two people have hurt me recently. I have forgiven them both. Love me, hate me. That is your prerogative. My choice is to love me. Heres my wish for a New Year, that everyone be accepted for who they are not what they appear to be.

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