Perfect description of the ways in which narcissists work including: 1. The Idealization-Devaluation-Discard Phase, which you can do no wrong and then you can do no right, at which point you are then discarded; 2. Gaslighting, their attempts to have you believe that their abuse is justifiable and that your perception of the abuse is inaccurate; 3. Smear Campaigns are about getting as many people in his or her harem as the narcissist can get to support their cause; 4. Triangulation, bringing in other people and their opinions to support their point of view, even though those people do not know who you are. This can take place on social media or in person; 5. The discard phase, where the ugly true self is revealed, the one that slanders defames verbally abuses, is cold, uncaring, callous, may make unwanted phone calls, may right unwanted letters, emails or texts, May make smear campaigns, May make up our social media pages about you, May threaten you or threaten your children. In their mind you can do no right you are a victim of splitting. selfcarehaven.wordpress/2014/07/21/five-powerful-ways-abusive-narcissists-get-inside-your-head/
Posted on: Thu, 20 Nov 2014 10:33:58 +0000