Personally; youre all sound alittle bitter {for some reason or another}; dont take it personal, but we all run short of control and alot of people love to control and they are very unhappy if they are not in control or controlling the situation {the way they want the situation to do}. Why do; you think, there are divorce lawyers? Well, to continue with the Terrance Howard comment. I totally disagree with the concept of the woman destroying the mans life {anger; destroys a persons life}. Remember! You live by the gun; you die by the gun. This statement alone; apply in all areas of our lives... It doesnt matter who you marry or date {anger runs in all races}; its the individuals responsible to learn to control their own shortcomings. Now, dont get me wrong! It helps; if your partner knows your triggers and dont use them against you, but unfortunately; some people have a sick need to play with other peoples triggers. They like to think; they got control, but no one really have control over someone else who doesnt have control of themselves {its a dangerous game some people love to play with [and they consider themselves intelligent], but thats my opinion}. It doesnt matter who you marry or who you date; its everyones responsible to learn their own triggers and learn to control them, because if we dont {our shortcoming will control us [thinking you have lust; when you dont (is a problem within itself), some-things; we are powerless from happening], but we can learn ways to control or arrest those feelings and place them under a control environment}, if we dont; our shortcomings will control our outcome and not in a positive way. Sadly; some people are hurt, because of the dealing with life {but we are powerless how life was; but not how we decide to change it into} and bitterness isnt going to help anyone see a newer day. Well, thats my opinion {dont let one of anything; steal your joy of every else and how love should be}! God bless and cousin; get that man or any man who speaks down black women or any woman out of your head {just like I let go of women talking about black men out of mine head. People are always going to talk, that dont know how to love {teach them; you are not the one [to be hated], because Im a good man} regardless; what some people may think. I work at controlling me and not other people, but its our responsible; to inform others about their shortcoming without allowing our instructing them {to take control over our emotions, because we perceive ourselves as failing}, because we interpret they lack of understanding with our teaching or inform them about change. Dont hold onto your efforts; so strongly, because all things work in Gods time and not ours. We are trusted servants we dont govern. Sadly; we look for instant gratification and it dont work that way all the time. JustBeingHonest We cant be our own worst enemy at times. No one better; lies to me, than me...
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 16:38:55 +0000
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