Please consider this! Once your case has made it through trial in a family court, and is awaiting judgement. 1: The judge has had absolutely no one on one contact with the children on whos future s/he is going to decide. 2: The information that s/he will base his / her judgement on will take some consideration as to the level of conflict between both partys. (In high level conflict I would imagine s/he should be able to quickly identify who out of the 2 shows malice) 3: The reports from experts and scholars that they rely on are also mostly written by people whom have had absolutely no contact or only a little with the children upon whom the judge will decide their fate! These 3 major points are judged from the outside looking in! Now Id like to introduce you to a game at your next friendly family BBQ; 1 establish a circle of 6 people or more. 2: 1 person to write down a short story in a private room and once complete let no one see it, invite person number 2 into same said room, and read them the story and once the story is read, person number one leaves the room and requests person number 3 to enter the room where person number 2 relays the story to person number 3 before person number 2 leaves the room to invite person number 4. And so on until the last person has reached the room and heard the story, then the last person is left alone in the room to rewrite the story, once complete, compare those 2 documents for consistency! Having that said; I think you will quickly see that its near impossible for a Judge to decide on the welfare of the children as all they have to go on is the documents and their own presumption of whats truly going on, imagine that as a child; knowing that someone that has never heard your joyous laughter nor heard about the things you love and what makes you feel whole, gets to decide what is best for you? This system was doomed before it even got started! Point 1: I would like to see 50% equal paternal rights for all parents and children post separation, and if a VRO / DVO is sought; the other party to have access to cross examine the applicant in no more then 14 days unless the affected party consents otherwise. 2: If for some strange reason this cannot be brought about, access orders to / for the children must be written down and ordered on exact same order. 3: Where it is established the VRO / DVO was sought with malicious intent, the applicant person be responsible for cost and make up time for the children. 4: You watch and see how the courts hearing list begins to shrink!
Posted on: Sun, 26 Oct 2014 05:50:25 +0000
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