Please post this for me, hide my i.d and notify when posted. sorry for d long write up please!! I meet a guy since april, cool,caring nd jovial then and he finally ask me out on my birthday (july) after a lot of talks, I agree to date him since am a single girl then. M 23yrs,he is 27years,m an ND holder and working, he is in finals in school and working aswell. we are distance apart that we only see once in a month or NOT atall but we do chat and call eachother. He showed me love at the beggining which I reciprocate by been a loyal girl and I love his sooo very much that I overlove and this made me jealous alot. he knows all my movement because I work from morning till night(mon-sat). We started our relationship nd based on seriousness because I told him am afraid of going into any relationship again due to experience I had back and afraid of been hurt which he promise his best, he is xoo jealous and tried to prevent me from other guys. Everything is fine when we started BUT later tins changed, 98% of his frnds are females,he took closeness/emotional pictures with dem,chat with bbm females asking them out and call even when he was with me during his visits. Later I search through his phone(wtzapp,bbm sms) and saw differents chats. He later password his phones after I confront him to know the truths. This is a guy that never give me a dime(money/gift) ever since we started this affair, and I love it that way because his love and loyalty is what I needed, our first meeting was sponse by me(tfare-to n fro) even wen he come for visiting, I foot the bills. Whenever I complain of his attitude which I dont like especially among ladies he flare up with me and we fight, I begged him soo many times even when m not at fault. later I begin to tolerate his habbit. Any little tin I did or say is now bad to him. Weneva we are fighting, it may take us days not talking to eachother, there will be no text and pings. which I dont like because it hurts and disturb me physically and emotionally affect me at work, and he knows all dis. but I think he is using my weakness against me, seeing myself in this kind of situation is what I hate most NOTE I used to apologise when am wrong/ryt buh it is as if he is taking me for granted. This is a guy I love and even get jealous of whenever he is in school or at home, it is goin to a week now that we talk all because I ask him how his work goin. Maybe his taught was am after his salary because he is having issue wit it some months back. If we are friends for 2weeks, we fight for 2weeks. And this is the guy m planning to spend d rest of my life with, yet he claims to love me whenever we settle rift and promise not to hurt or leave me again. Now I dont knw if I should b d first to say hello to him again after a week break when I didnt do anyfin wrong or I Shld leave him for a while to realise his mistake and stop taking me for granted or move on wit my life. I tried to forget him but I cant help it. It is goin to 2 weeks already that we talk, please advise me more on what to do. Insult is welcome. Sorry for d long write up.
Posted on: Thu, 13 Nov 2014 14:39:11 +0000
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