Post 29806 Hi everyone :) . So, I grew up being taught that sharing your feelings or crying is a sign of weakness and that theres this stigma about girls who share their feelings with guys and girls who are needy blah blah blah. My dad being very set in his ways, old-school and quite strict... I am very diplomatic and I thoroughly enjoy evaluating people. Im young, only 18 years old but I grew up with siblings much older than me making me the laat lammetjie of the family. I admit I had it tough growing up, but I have no complaints as I have grown into a young woman who can take care of myself. So, I have been in 2 mildly long-term relationships but I find myself wondering about the same things... I have a tough time connecting because I dont share my feelings (I thought this would be GREAT because I often hear guys complaining about these needy girls who share their feelings and whatever else girls do) so I tend to just bottle things up, put my feelings aside and concentrate solely on the person Im with. But somehow this isnt good either, right? Now Im stuck in this situation where this guy and I are dating and theres all this confusion. Hes the loveliest and possibly the most amazing guy, such a gentleman, has so much respect for me, but I need to learn how to just let loose a little sometimes! What can I do to make him feel appreciated and make him understand that I care about him and hes special to me (without me sounding crazy/stalker girlfriend material). Is there something I could buy him or something I could do? A little afvice would be amazing! Any advice would be amazing. I want to change... For him! I want to become a better me :). Thank you xx
Posted on: Mon, 17 Nov 2014 05:44:59 +0000
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