QUESTION: A PIN ( personal identification number) is private and confidential. Am ready to disclose my total financial worth to my wife. But i cant leave my äccounts to a weaker vessel who spends. The above conditions are tough.....if i am providing adequately for my wife and children...is it a big deal if i keep my accounts pin to myself? ANSWER FROM S.STEPHEN MOGAGABE: If your wife is a type that spents, you must SIT DOWN TOGETHER AND TALK. Allocate budget for spending so that you can still pay for your monthly obligations: e.g. - house bill - rent - food - children school fees/ tertiary fees DONT IGNORE A SPENDING WIFE, TALK TO HER GENTLY. SHOW HER WHY YOU BOTH NEED TO SAVE OR HAVE A BACK UP FUND IN TIMES OF LACK. Dont hide money from your wife. THAT IS A SIGN OF A BOY. NOT A HUSBAND! A true husband talks everything with his wife. THERE IS OPENNESS. No hidden secrets. DONT LIVE IN FEAR. TALK WITH YOUR WIFE. NEVER MAKE MONEY YOUR HOUSE ENEMY. Many marriages breaks over money. BE WISE. Let your wife know your incomes, so she can know how to spent wisely. DONT HIDE BANK PINS. Its a sign of an immature man. SIT DOWN WITH YOU OWN WIFE AND DISCUSS THE USE OF YOUR SALARIES, INCOMES, BUSINESS CASHFLOW, AND ETC. DISCUSS YOUR INVESTMENTS, dont keep her in the dark. RICH STINGY HUSBANDS WHO HAVE DIED IN HOSPITAL ICUS ARE MORE THAN THOSE PEOPLE THINK. Do you know why they died in ICUS, simply because they hid thier bank account pins from thier wives. WHEN THIER MEDICAL BILL INCREASED, thier wives could not withdraw and they died in ICUS. Stupidity and secrecy killed them before time. BE TRANSPARENT! In few years i have been alive i have seen lots of things, it is better to be transparent than having to die with MONEY IN YOUR ACCOUNT WHICH YOUR OWN WIFE COULD NOT WITHDRAW BECAUSE YOU WERE NOT WILLING TO GIVE HER SOMETHING AS LITTLE AS A PIN NUMBER so she can withdraw and help you when you cannot even help yourself laying on an ICU. STUPIDITY OF MANY MEN IS THEIR WON DOWNFALL AND CAUSE OF MANY PREMATURE DEATHS. Your wife is not your enemy. TEACH HER HOW TO USE MONEY. Show her priorities. SHE WILL LEARN AND BE ABLE TO HELP YOU IN TYING TO RUN YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS SMOOTHLY. ALL MY TRUE FRIENDS DONT HIDE MONEY FROM THIER WIVES. I WALK WITH MEN OF INTEGRITY.
Posted on: Mon, 26 Jan 2015 15:06:39 +0000
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