Question for Moe: "I am so worried about my sister. She met this Nigerian man on Christian Meet. They have only known each other for 3 months. So he catches a flight to see her and stay for a week. A week turned into 3weeks and now he says he wants marriage. He tells her that he hates the fact that she has to leave him there to go to work and that he should be the one going to work (keep in mind he does not have a job)! He says if he were to find work he would pay 90% of her bills. He then informs her that he has a h1b visa that expires in 2015 and can’t find work because the put a cap on the quota for the year (whatever that means). So, it would be much easier for him to get a job if they were married and since they are now in love. She is even telling me that she is in love and she feels he is her soul mate because he tops every guy she has ever been with. So, he catches a plain back to his bother here in the states and keeps telling her he cant stop crying because he loves her and wants marriage to show her his loves. He even says if she doesn’t marry him he is going to move back to United Kingdom and their relationship will end because he will not have time. Now my sister is telling me that she does not want him to leave and miss out on what God has blessed her with. So his brother is sending him back to her place for 3days, so they could fast and pray and do what is best for them. He also told her to put aside what others have to say! I could be wrong but I feel he wants citizenship and is playing a game. What do you guys think? I don’t want her to be conned!
Posted on: Sun, 11 Aug 2013 20:59:03 +0000
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