RANT COMING!!!! Recently, Ive been made to feel guilty for having two healthy children and an amazing husband. This has happened several times in the last few months. Listen, every single one of us deals with different hardships and rewards. Ive dealt with hardship. Ive lost a child. Ive lived with a disease that tries to kill me everyday for 25+ years. I didnt have a dad around when I was kid; he walked out on his marriage. Im divorced and remarried. I married a deployable Marine. I lived 14 years thinking Id never have a child. The list goes on and on and on. Some of it is a lot worse than this. We all get the bad stuff. Im not saying these things to make people feel sorry for me; Im trying to make a point. I dont feel sorry for myself over the hardships. The point is that it isnt right to make people feel bad for having something. Ive done hardship and loss; I deserve some happiness. We all do! Dont spoil that for me or anyone else. If you cant say something nice or be supportive at least dont ruin it for another person. You dont wear my shoes and I dont wear yours. dont intend to make others hurt or be sad by having children and a husband. Dont try to make me feel bad for having them. I know how to count my blessings. If you cant be happy for me thats fine. My sons and husband are beautiful GIFTS. Everyone deserves love. Dont expect me to be empathetic, sympathetic AND guilty. I
Posted on: Tue, 26 Aug 2014 13:16:06 +0000
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