RULES IN ENGAGEMENT & COURTSHIP RELATIONSHIPS.#7. Things To Look For . In the issue of attraction,one rule must apply. The attraction and admiration must not be about physical things but rather the inner things. As much as we must be conscious of appearance and beauty, we must not forget that the greatest asset in a spouse is actually hidden in the inner man. Its what he or she is when no one is watching or dictating,when in the natural self. One can only be natural when unaware that any one is watching. Thats why I strongly believe that we should only propose or accept proposals from those weve been able to watch from a distance. You know a person through interactions. A person you had a little chat with over a cup of tea,coffee or a soda is unknown to you. A person you met over the internet is a stranger to you. He or she could turn to be anybody in the future. I have solved such cases for a while and I wish I will not be solving yours over the same issue. When watching someone in his or her natural self,you will be seeing the real and original person. Then, your eyes will be open to the natural attributes, character and lifestyle of a person. Thats where real attraction and admiration comes into play. Those who go through this route do not marry the charisma or gift in the man or woman. They marry a person with certain qualities. They marry a person they know,and such marriages last longer. Let me reemphasize the need to not engage before you know the person,it makes him or her to fake him or her self to win you. To continue.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Nov 2014 15:41:52 +0000
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