Realizing things , I love being family oriented and enjoying everything that comes with it , I give a lot of myself to try and have an actual family , I am in love with the idea of a real straight up team us kinda situation , it never works out that way though , for some reason I still find myself alone at my sons football practices and games and people I usually date always seem to have other priorities , why do I make them and their kids my priority , why do I put so much effort into things to get half of it back in return ,I feel like people these days have become so used to being alone and feeling like all they can count on is themselves that they are never able to fully give what is required to have a real family , when u have a family and thats what u really want it is not a part time thing and it is not a one way street , obligations to kids go for all kids involved , how can I expect my child to feel a part when its more like he is only visiting , your child has an activity ( sport , school function , take your kid to work day ) Im there , I want to be a part of those things becuz thats wut makes a family , thats wut shows selflessness , thats wut shows love , too many people forget that wen u are in a relationship with someone who has kids then u lose your free time becuz a real family life is devoting your life to your kids and the kids of the person you are with and then praying that every once in a while you get time to enjoy each other in peace and quiet , u dont make a family work by doing your own thing especially if the 2 of u work opposite schedules , dont say u want a family if wut u really mean is u want a partner part time wen its convenient for your life cuz that doesnt work , building a family is exactly that building it takes time and work , u dont plan vacations without the other parts of your family because they are working hard to try and build something , u work harder so it can build sooner , theres just so much to the statement i want a family no small print wen it comes to that ,, well actually wut I just wrote was the small print but I assume that its just a given , society sure kills that assumption
Posted on: Fri, 08 Aug 2014 01:41:09 +0000
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