Recognition & Reward ¨`*☆. ི❥ Many people have no problem being givers, but when it’s time to receive some people struggle. Are you the type of person that always gives to others and forgets about yourself? Some people even have a hard time accepting a compliment. When it comes to the “law of abundance” in our lives to work successfully, there has to be a flow with both aspects of giving and receiving. During a workshop I taught a few years ago, a lovely woman volunteered for a reading and I could see from her aura and energy that she was a total giver. She always went out of her way to help others, donated her time to charities, and even cooked meals for sick neighbors. I asked her, “I see that you are such a kind woman, and always giving to others, but why is it so hard for you to receive?” She started to cry and looked at me and said, “I don’t feel like I’m worthy.” At that point I told her that she was worthy and gave her the biggest hug, as did other students in the class! I too am a giver, and I told the class that it took me quite awhile to learn to receive, and that it wasn’t easy to do at first. I explained that I started with something simple and encouraged her to do the same. If someone paid me a compliment, I didn’t dismiss it but simply said, “Thank You!” We are all meant to help each other with our time here, and we are all connected! So why is it so hard for people to receive? I feel it might be the way we were raised or by what society dictates including the edicts: “You should stand on your own,” “Don’t be dependent on anyone,” “Don’t be a burden to others,” or “You don’t deserve that!” By refusing to receive, you are sort of dismissing the grace of abundance in all forms from entering your life. I want this newsletter and this special card to remind you to honor yourself with the work you have done, physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. A reward for a job well done is what this card represents. It’s a time of recognition for a completed project, hard work, skill, expertise, and craftsmanship. These abilities are now being honored, but don’t forget to also pay homage to yourself. Pat yourself on the back — you deserve it! This card also comes forth to represent a family or a group of people coming together — all of whom are aiming and striving toward a common goal. Accept the help that’s being offered. More possibilities are in the works, so be sure to lay a solid foundation from your past achievements, and this will help you be ready for the next opportunity. In addition, this card is a reminder to take care of your physical body; after all, it’s what carries your soul around in this material world. Lesson ི❥ I want to give you just a few tips in receiving and honoring yourself: Start off small. At the end of the day, make it a point to be thankful for something you received whether it was a compliment, a hello from a stranger, or even a smile! Be a little more discerning in your giving. Let others give to you. If you are always the one who jumps and grabs and pays the bill, then allow the other person to pay so that they can feel the same joy you receive every time you paid. If you have done a great job at something, and you are proud, then do something special for yourself! It’s not being selfish - you’re honoring your self and your soul. Learn from children. They are excellent teachers when it comes to receiving! It’s natural for them to ask for help, just as well for them to help another. Appreciate all the abundance and goodness that’s around you. Be thankful for your health, children, sunny days, your garden, family, best friends, or even the person who let you jump ahead in line at the bank! The more joy you begin to notice and appreciate, the easier it becomes for you to experience more happiness, joy, abundance, prosperity, and most important – love. By learning to be grateful, you’re acknowledging and honoring the Divine Source, and by doing so, you’re keeping the energy of the "giving and receiving circle" open and flowing. When you focus on having an attitude of gratitude, you’re really sharing so that everyone benefits. Live a Soul-Filled life! ~ John Holland johnholland
Posted on: Tue, 27 Aug 2013 02:59:52 +0000
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