Recognize de benefits of 4giving.A spirit of 4giveness allows u & ur mate 2 give each other de benefit of de doubt rather than 2 keep score of wrongs dat,in turn,helps u 2 create an evironment Dat,kedps resentment in check & allows lv 2 grow bible principle:colossians 3:13.B realistic.it is easier 2 b 4give whn u accept ur spouse 4 who he or she is,flaws & al.whn u focus on wat u didnt get its 2 easy 2 4get O of wat u did get says de book fighting 4 ur marriage which list do u want 2 dwell on at dis point life?remember no 1 is perfect including u.james 3:2.B reasonable.de next tym u ar offended by sum thin dat ur spouse said o did,ask urself;is de situation realy dat important?do i nid 2 demand an apology,o can i jst overluk wat happened & move on?1peter 4:8 if necessary,discuss de matter.calmy explain wat offended u & why it made u feel dat way.do nt impute bad motives o make dogmatic state statements since these wil only put ur spouse on de defensive instead,simply relate hw ur spous actions affected u
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