Regarding social fear: If you are 1) Honest & truthful 2) Not trying to impress others / get their validation 3) If your intentions are good & ethical-- you want the best for everyone and for the greater good: I believe 99% of your social fears are illusionary. The thing is, you have to combat your social fear HEAD ON. You have to TAKE ACTION even while having that future-projected fear / anxiety in your mind. And as that fear moves into the NOW, the present, only THEN will you find out how that fear or anxiety was an illusion and it will pass by in a flow-like way making you feel silly for having soo much anxiety about that future social situation. Ralph Waldo Emerson says it the best: When a resolute young fellow steps up to the great bully, the world, and takes him boldly by the beard, he is often surprised to find it comes off in his hand, and that it was only tied on to scare away the timid adventurers.
Posted on: Fri, 18 Jul 2014 03:39:51 +0000
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