Relationship tip of the day. (Family Interference) The problem: When we become a couple, we often feel that it is just the two of us but not far into the relationship, we discover that our families are part of it as well. Family members can mean well but may actually end up interfering in the choices a couple make. Unwanted advice, although given with the best intentions, can cause problems for a couple. This can result in external pressure on the relationship and could generate a few arguments between the couple and/or the other family members. The solution: As a couple you need to have discussed and agreed upon your position and assert this to your family members. You must present a united and strong front if you want to minimize the disruption to your lives now and in the future. Just as parents need to define boundaries for their children, couples need to define boundaries with their extended family members on what is or isn’t appropriate behaviour.
Posted on: Sun, 11 Aug 2013 14:35:24 +0000