Repost from inbox -Kelsey please post anon, thanks. I need to vent, need advice, support, actually I dont really know what I need........ I´m together with my fiance for two years, he´s stationed stateside and I live in Germany. This whole year we weren´t able to see each other cause of financial problems. so we had a pretty rough year but I always thought we got through pretty good...... So everything was already planed for his vac in december to come over. In the last few weeks I had a strange feeling that smth was wrong cause he was online a lot on whatsapp, but was rarely talking to me, but then I thought maybe I´m just overreacting. So yesterday I just thought we need to have a serious talk cause I wanted to find out whats going on so we could work on it. So I started asking him whats wrong, whats going on, then he said to me that he dont want to be mean or smth but he wants us to have a break...... I was so shocked I couldnt even respond right away..... after a few second I asked him if he is talking to somebody, and he said yes..... so he told me right now he is not really happy in our relationship.....so about a month ago he found this girl again on facebook he knows from a few years back when he was stationed in Germany, and since then they are talking and he started having feelings for her. I didnt even know what to say anymore.....but the best part came then...... so he told me he wants to get to know this girl better to see where it leads him, and for that he planed that when he comes on vac in december he wants to spend the first 3 days with her, then 3 days with me and then the rest of his vac which is 5 days he wants to spend with her again. I was out of words, tears were running down my face...... He told me that he still loves me but he wants to find himself. I asked why he never told me that he is unhappy, told me before this girl even came into his life again, he just let her get in between us that easy and throw away everything we have. We planed to get married next year and now???? I mean how can he expect me to say, that I´m ok with it that he stays with her 3 days, then comes to me and then go back to her cause he dont know what he wants????? I am confused, hurt, mad, sad, but most of all I am disappointed cause I never saw smth like that coming. Right now it feels like everytime he told me that he loves me that it was just a straight up lie..... I just dont know what to say, to do or to feel anymmore...... sorry that its so long........
Posted on: Sun, 03 Nov 2013 22:43:38 +0000
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