SAPELE/DELTA STATE MUST BETTER Morning Coffee of the Word of Our God Winning friends Most people say they want to get along well with others and be liked, but often they don’t know where to begin. How can we build strong connections with people? Here are some tips to get you started. The point is not to pretend to be something you’re not, but to make a conscious effort to cultivate qualities that will make people feel at ease and be happy to be around you. Be polite and courteous- As St. Basil observed, “He who sows courtesy, reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness, gathers love.” Smile- A sincere smile disarms the guarded, soothes the argumentative, calms the angry, and encourages the downhearted. It sets a positive tone. Be optimistic- Everyone has enough problems already. People are drawn to upbeat, solution-oriented people. Be sociable- If you’re shy or withdrawn, focusing on making the other person feel accepted and at ease will help you be less self-conscious. Be respectful- It’s easy to respect people who you have a lot in common with, but respecting others’ right to think and be different is even more important, as well as more endearing. Look for the good in others- Everyone has at least a few admirable qualities. Focus on finding those, not finding fault. Be vocal about others’ good qualities- Everyone needs to know that his or her good qualities are noticed and appreciated. Be generous, sincere, and specific with your compliments. Lighten up- A person with a good sense of humor is fun to be around. Just be sure your humor doesn’t come at someone else’s expense. Keep an open mind- Everyone has a right to an opinion. Few arguments are worth winning at the cost of a friendship. Be humble- Proud, self-promoting people are a pain to be around. Humility is winsome; pride is woeful. Be a good listener- One of the best ways to show people you care about them is by taking an interest in what they have to say and making an effort to understand and empathize. Be gracious when others make mistakes- Everybody messes up sometimes. Remember the Golden Rule. What goes around comes around. Further Readings: Proverbs 17:17 ESV - A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. Proverbs 18:24 ESV - A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Proverbs 27:17 ESV - Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another. PRAYER: Heavenly King, Father of Light we give you Glory honor and adoration for the privilege to see this beautiful day. We thank you for making all things beautiful for us today. Thank you Lord for letting us know how to be good friends and companions to people and how to make good friends. Most of all we thank you for being our closest friend who never leaves of forsakes us in our times of need, because of you we know that we are more than conquerors and overcomers in this life and that greater is he that is in us, than he that is in the World therefore no matter what temptation, distraction or adversaries we face, we come out standing tall in Jesus name...Amen God Bless Sapele SAPELE/DELTA STATE MUST BETTER.
Posted on: Tue, 17 Jun 2014 04:57:09 +0000
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