SISTERS; HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL MUSLIM WIFE!!! Be the best wife you can be. Being a good Muslim wife is in many ways similar to being a good wife in other religions. Sure it has its own special features and requirements, just like any other religion. However, there are common basic methods and guidelines for being a good wife in general. Follow them. Pray regularly. Always ask Allah for forgiveness and blessings on your marriage. Understand and respect your husbands rights. Study authentic haadith and make sure that you understand your obligations as a wife as well as understand your rights. In Islam, a good wife is expected to be honest, sincere and cognizant of her husbands needs. At the same time her husband must respect her, fulfill her needs and even help her in household chores. Be secure in yourself. Putting yourself down in front of him is another way of insulting his taste in women. If he is with you, its because he wants to be. He will find you attractive even if you dont feel like it. Remember that attitude and willingness are large parts of being approachable and attractive. Poor self-esteem and a void in your life is terrible for marriage. Make sure you still have a fun and interesting life. If your husband left tomorrow, would you still have girlfriends you see at least once a month, hobby clubs you go to, sports you play? If not, your husband will always be working to fill a void he cant, and will feel inadequate and unhappy. Express, dont accuse. Except in the rare event that your husband happens to be psychic, dont expect mind-reading powers. If you want something, ask. If something is wrong, say so. Dont drop hints or figure hell come around. Communicate calmly, clearly and directly. Relationships work best when each partner calmly express their current emotion without harping on what he has done. Frequently, a I feel attacked or I feel sad is all it takes for him to step back and ask, Why? Then simply say,When you slammed the door,I felt ignored. Let I feel be. Your guide. Accept him. Only by accepting him as he is,do you have such deep respect and gratitude for him that you would never want him to change in any way for you. He has so much to offer you if only you give him the space to be himself. He is a growing individual, just like you are. Help him grow in the direction that he chooses, and give him the chance to help you. A real couple will do whatever it takes to make their relationship work, no matter how hard it gets. Dress pleasantly/attractively. If you are a home-maker,don’t stay in your sleeping suit all day .Behave like a female, i.e all the tenderness of a female. Race to the door when he comes home, as if you were waiting for him. Smile, hug and kiss him. Wish you all the great moments in life, Keep Smiling!!!
Posted on: Sat, 25 Jan 2014 05:23:14 +0000
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