#SUPPERWOMAN2 THIS IS MY STORY. I remember being happy. I dont regret, having to meet any of exz..i know there was a reason for that. I remember when i mate him, at the counter of multchoice, i never for a minute pared myself with him. I was in my own world, living my life. When we got together, i gave my all, i gave up my relationship with peter, n i fogged for what seemed right.. Life was amazing, and yes our world were different, i never for a minute cared.. i remember people laughing at me and calling me names that i was going out with an ugly guy whose just a KAMBWANGA. I never for once saw him as that, my friends told me that i deserved better, that he had no money n he was way too funny looking...i laughed, cause i set my mind on only seeing a man in him. We had amazing times together,we shared life as is. We got engaged and decided that he should try else with work, cause the job he had was not paying him much. Summer of 2012, he was selected for the intake 2013 ZNS, i was happy for him and things went on as planned. We put the the wedding on hold and proceeded with the matebeto and the kitchen party. Yes i took a passengers seat with my career , cause i felt a need of changing ma work for him. #Mistake #1, yes before he left,he moved me to his family house,were he grew up his whole life. I wont dispute, this i was grateful for that. With the time my friend was in training, i was busy working and paying off his lôan with ECO bank.. sold my little glanza to pay off his outstanding loan. It was well with me,cause this was my man. I would drive every weekend to pick him up from kafue zns training camp..,drop him off, before midnight alone, with my son at the back seat. He graduated from the camp, and during that period, i was gifted with my little,one. After that he was posted to chongwe, were i would do the same thing midnight drop him off on a Sunday, pick him up on a Friday . He worked a couple of month there then moved to zns makeni. During that period we had one car a white alteza which i had bought before he left for school. Not to my knowledge, my friend started late nights..knocking off late, excessive drinking...and to top it off verbal abuse. I was expecting and my pregnancy was one of those, were you are sick like a dog. He would drink, late nights and late phone callz...from a so called mulenga chintu, a ZNS work mate. I suspected but brushed it off, cause i never thought that a normal lady would have the will to take away a man from his home. Born n bred awards, i was with my partner, very much pregnant. The editor for EZM, approached me to work with her on a project for mother n child. This was done With both of us involved. I thought it was a good gesture to work in support of a pregnant woman, and how man should treat there woman, when pregnant. I wont lie, my home was not as before, even the care was not the same as the one we tried to portray out there. My friend, as i speak now or share with you was never there through out my pregnancy sickness..... But i felt the need to change the way men treat there women during pregnancy.....
Posted on: Tue, 14 Oct 2014 11:06:21 +0000
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