Self Esteem Article – 52 Date : 01.10.13 Self Esteem is a very positive aspect of life . It means we should love ourselves and to be proud of ourselves . If we do not love ourselves , our mind will take it in a very negative way . It will create emotional disturbances and the body will invite diseases . Now let us discuss why many of us do not love and accept the way we are ? Our mind compares ourselves with our peers in the society in terms of look , caste , colour , height , wealth, name/fame , knowledge , IQ , position of parents , jobs, beauty , talent etc . Therefore we always try to find ourselves superior in comparison to others on account of the above aspects. Whenever it does not happen the way we like we develop inferiority complex and blame ourselves/our family/parents/community/Country/ Cast/Creed/Religions etc . This creates self- hatred in us . This is a game of mind . It always compare us with others and put us in a shameful position . As we are ignorant , we are not able to see this trick . If we observe closely at others we can see that , almost all the people lack few of these aspects in their life . Nobody has all the aspects in him . So is it fair to blame ourselves /our parents / fate /God for our present position ? It is a foolish idea . But in practice many of us do it on continuous basis and have very low self-esteem . So by continuously blaming us we strengthen our weaknesses and fail to strengthen our positives . This low self-esteem kills all that is positive in us and put us in a downward trend . The low self-esteem happens due to the perceptions of our mind and related to our past karma . The important thing is to first know that we have this issue . The second thing is that we should believe that it can be set right . If we became human beings from monkey , then why can’t we change ourselves .This can be done by strong will power or through healing or both . There are many healing procedures like Reiki , Pranic healing , EFT , Past life regression , Meta healing , Chakra healing ,Colour Therapy , Angel Therapy , NLP , Theta healing , Aroma Therapy etc . Low self-esteem spoils all the enthusiasm in life and we lose all the creativity in us . Life becomes purposeless and it leads to frustration , anger , stress , diseases and even to suicide . This is a disease of the mind and nothing to do with any defect or deficiency in us . We should know that all of us have infinite capabilities and the look of the body , wealth or the social position are very inferior to it . Due to the veiling aspect of the mind , we not aware about the capabilities in us . We have to believe in us and take full responsibility of ourselves in whatever present position we are in . We should look for any external help (say healing ) to remove the temporary blocks created by the mind in us . Mahatma Gandhi with his lean and thin so called ugly body with bare clothing shook the British empire and there are many like him . Our body and wealth are simply mere instruments or tools to carry-out specific day today works . But the real treasure is the divinity with full of creative energy and capabilities in each of us in abundance which we are not aware of . Please increase your awareness to make your own destiny and be blissful . R.P.Rath Ahmedabad 9227233330
Posted on: Tue, 01 Oct 2013 06:17:29 +0000
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