Setting up a good Islamic environment is one of the most important factors in raising children. An environment that is always clean, loving, fun and centered around the importance of the Qur’an and the Sunnah is important for every parent to observe. Following Prophet Muhammad’s practices for example, like eating a grand variety of food in moderation, studying, finding time for rest and entertainment, sleeping early and keeping clean, will help children learn about Islam from the core. “Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, the poor, the neighbor who is near of kin, the neighbor who is a stranger, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (you meet), and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess. Verily, Allah does not like such as are proud and boastful (An-Nisa: 36).” Remaining humble and patient during adversities is also an important lesson for children. Taking them out often and having them help with charity work is a great way to instill their love for Islam. Other ways would be through gardening, simple activism, playing sport and just reaching out to others through community activities will spur their interest in societal expectations. It is important to know that while teaching children to perform their Salah and to read the Qur’an, it is important for them to have a balanced life in order to fully reap the rewards of their potential. However, they must constantly be guided to stay away from activities that are not pleasing to Allah, but this has to be done with wisdom and kindness. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Allah will ask every caretaker about the people under his care, and the man will be asked about the people of his household” (Nasa’i & Abu Daud).
Posted on: Tue, 05 Nov 2013 09:14:18 +0000
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