Several days ago one of my clients called me in the middle of the night ...He was lost, lonely, and terribly hurt...I want to share with you my thoughts to him in hopes it helps any of you as well ...They say grief is the price we pay for loving the wrong person...And sometimes we get so caught up in that person we meet that we think we need them as much as a heart needs a beat ...We then become clouded if they are an angel or a devil ...Have you ever wondered how someone who gives you so much pleasure can be the one who causes you so much pain ? You see when you fall in love with someone you are willingly surrendering a piece of your soul that you will never get back ...And if this person does not accept your love and need to help and honor them in their life then they are not really respecting you at all ...So at some point you MUST stop chasing after their attention and affection for if it was real they would let you into their hearts no matter how dirty or cluttered that messy heart is ...Unfortunately, many times people dont care for you in the Same way you care for them , which hurts but you cant change someone and honestly why would you want to and you CANT make someone feel something they just dont have within them to give you ...Sometimes as hard as it is you just have to let go and leave their life quietly because at times letting go is much easier than holding on to that which is not true or real ...It all comes down to integrity ...Integrity is one of the greatest things we can choose to have in our lives...You should ALWAYS align your actions to match your values...You must do whats right and best for your journey through this amazing gift called Life...No one else walks in your shoes so step not only wisely but proud and with confidence...I strongly believe that at times your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows but eventually you must decide if all the pain and lonliness is worth that piece of your soul thats being taken away from you like a thief in the night who doesnt care at all...My wish for all of you is every single day you wake up you say to yourself Today I will invite only happiness, laughter, and REAL love into my life...Think of your life as a celebration to be shared with those whom you care about and those who are lucky enough to cross your path because they truely want to be in your space...Remember every day you wake up is a chance to start again and begin a brand new day...So say to yourself Today I will be a part of the solution of my world not the problem ...My father once said to me no relationship is worth loosing yourself for and you need to be sick and tired of being sick and tired...So now I always tell my clients what you truely seek is already within you so have the courage to go out and get it ...And most of all realize problems are nothing more than a unique opportunity to learn and grow...HAPPY SUNDAY FAM ♡ MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU ♡♡♡
Posted on: Sun, 21 Sep 2014 18:58:32 +0000
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