Should I give up the person I love? When I first met my girlfriend I saw that she was the woman that I would like to build a future with. Our relationship, even though were from different cultures, has always been great, we are like a team together, and we didnt have problems until the past few weeks. Shes Chinese, and Im working in China because I got a job there and thats how I met her. She is pretty ambitious and likes to take risks, and she has always dreamed of becoming a flight attendant and work in Emirates. She recently got the chance to fulfill her dream and actually got the job she always wanted, so she quit her previous job. That means shes going to be working in Dubai for at least three years in the airline industry. Before this we considered to make a future together, however, even that I have a good job here and good probabilities of getting better salary and position in the future, theres not much I can offer her right now, so we didn’t get engaged, because our original plan was to wait a little longer until I open my own company in China, and have better conditions before proposing her, which would take like 2 years and then get married. Shes leaving, and I can’t tell her to stay here, that would be pretty selfish, but I’m afraid of the long absences, and on top of that, she doesnt have holidays after the 6 month probation time, and even after that, her changing schedule will still make things complicated. I have a lot of fears to be honest, Ive heard a lot of stories about infidelity in long distance relationships, and Ive also heard stories of flight attendants hooking up with the cabin crew members in their layovers, being unfaithful to their couples. My girlfriend is beautiful, and I’m also not bad looking myself, but as a flight attendant, working in Dubai, she would meet the most handsome and richest men on earth. I know its all about how much we love each other to maintain the relationship, but I’m also being aware that being able to see her would be pretty difficult, only being able to see her on holidays and maybe a couple times during the year. We have discussed this and were aware that the feeling we have for each other may vanish with the distance, were pretty realistic, and nevertheless we still have hope… But a little hope is not enough to ease my mind. What should I do? buff.ly/1HcUPlR
Posted on: Wed, 26 Nov 2014 20:00:28 +0000
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