Signs Of Immaturity In Marriage: FOR MEN: 1) Rejecting food when theres an issue: one of the things I hold in high esteem about my father is the fact that I never saw him reject my mothers food even when they had serious misunderstanding. In fact, its a big sin for his food to be unprepared when he is ready. Oga husband, you gave your wife money for food and after it was prepared you refuse to eat because you dey vex. Its one of the greatest signs of immaturity, its time to grow up! You should not even abandon your home for any reason, you could go somewhere when angry but ensure that you dont allow it to linger unnecessarily because that is enough for the devil to build on. 2) Telling your wife severally that you are the head: may I let you know that even when your wife disobeys/disrespect you she still knows that you are the head. You need not shout or scream it daily. Its important for you to know when and how to be firm and put your feet down over issues, however dont become a nagging husband just to prove that you are the head. 3) Issuing threats: beating, verbally abusing your wife, issuing threats of divorce or bragging about marrying another wife does not make you a man. Your strength is in your ability to tame your tongue and control your fist. When she is acting her childish woman part, play the matured man. 4) Reporting your wife to friends and family: When your wife offends, correct and talk things through. You dont have to tell everyone about her mistakes, that will paint her black and sell her cheap such that you will not be able to redeem her back. It is also out of place for any man to love his mother more than his wife and kids, doing this only sets up your home for crisis. 5) Competition: have you seen couples who compete with each other over material acquisitions? Their properties and investments are always in separate names. As the wife borrows to buy a Ferrari, the husband is running after a bugatti. How childish can we be?
Posted on: Thu, 31 Oct 2013 08:55:17 +0000
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