Sisters, Before you jump into a marriage, make sure theres love, stability and trust.... Yes, we must learn to endure, but if theres no love.......theres no way youll be able to endure.... if theres no stability, therell be no contentment and if theres no trust...... you will have no peace of mind. He took you to meet his folks does not mean he will marry you, before accepting his proposal, make sure that you are both ready and capable to enter into marriage. Make sure that youve dated, courted before the I do, dont rush into it, get to know your boyfriend/ fiancé well before crossing that line...... if you rush in, you will rush out. Make sure that you are the only one, that his love is not divided between you and another......make sure that you are not a rebound love, dont say yes right after he has just broken up with another woman...... he needs time to heal and to let her go........ if not there will be 3 people in your marriage instead of just the 2 of you....... nothing i s harder to kill that memory of a love that got away.... you will constantly be compared to her.... Yes, it should be for better for worse, we should endure with our husbands in times of trouble, because things wont remain that way..... But that does and must not translate to you being abused and remaining there...... When a man marries you, he has gained a good thing, a wife, lover, friend, confidant, mother for his children and a life time companion........ he is not doing you a favor by asking you to be his wife..... dont marry out of pity, marry out of love... You are not to be a burden on your hubby, you are to be his wife, lover, friend and help mate........... .. you will forsake others and cleave to him, you will respect, honor and love him....... his family will now become yours, dont see them as his family...... see them as our family.... Arguments will happen........keep your home life away from friends, keep your hubbys secrets and shortcomings, keep his shame.... allow no third party into your marriage... Dont share with your friends how good your hubby is to you, how he fu+ks you! how he buys you things and how he loves you........its non of their mordaforkin business....... doing this will find you the kind of problem you will live to regret for the rest of your life..... Above all.........keep God involve...... like n share
Posted on: Sat, 18 Jan 2014 05:25:03 +0000
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