Situations make us sad. People make us angry. Lovers make us feel - TopicsExpress

Situations make us sad. People make us angry. Lovers make us feel unworthy. Why? When its all mostly un-investigated assumptions. Do you miss someone or the moments you shared? Did someone hurt you or failed to meet your expectations? Are you worthless or do you not match someones idea of perfection? (Preconceived) Endless ways to crucify ourselves as if others judgements arent enough! No wonder people take drastic measures. We ought to love ourselves just as easily as we love others, after all were born alone and die alone. Loving others is a choice, not a sense of entitlement as you deem necessary but simply because you chose to admire, respect, or nurture them. Theres a limit or a cap off where you feel such person doesnt sync with you, appreciate you or may even keep hurting you. In actuality after being hurt so many times it was a clearly our choice to continue loving them, therefore we hurt ourselves. You reach a humble realization and no longer wish to invest energy into such a being. We move on and all we have is the experience. Did it make you a make you grow? I believe we are more than someones opinion. Theres a hole to every peg, more compatibility than the one we chose. How can we reach our ultimate awakening and state of harmony if we remain in a gloomy or isolated state of mind? We are an experience, a creation designed to be awakened, enlightened to the infinite possibilities that we are here to carry out. There are miraculous naked moments of emotional experiences where I is simply a figment of our mind, a perception of preconceived ideas, while it may be our truth its may not be a reality. Someone rejected us, GOOD, we are simply not what they are seeking. We get fired at the job, AWESOME, we left our drone zone and time to explore our options ect. Some persons get sought after most commonly for a nice physique, others for a beautiful face, and fewer for their minds. All in all it may seem that the less common we are the worse we feel about ourselves. We are a fascinating beings wether we we are sought after for one or two or all three, or none, why, because its our experience, our heart and soul that is ultimately the most valuable. The essence (energy, soul) which remains pure, abundant and adequate as we complete our journey. -(integrity) Marlene