Slowly, Im understanding the journey of others whove traveled before me. Theyve said, Just say my childs name! Today, I felt that. I was getting my hair done. I love my salon. All the women are great. Ive talked to most of them about Hannah except one. Always an awkward moment that first time. I wanted her to bring it up. It felt so awkward. Talk about a woolly mammoth in the room. But, I just cant bring it up. Finally she said, Laura, have you ever written a book? I know this lady doesnt frequent FB so I wasnt sure where this was coming from. I replied, Nope. Thought about it but never have. Then she brought of FB and my grieving posts. A little bit of a backdoor but it was a door nonetheless. I was keenly away of how much better I felt afterwards. I dont understand why. I just did. I usually like to talk about you not me. Grieving just has to have an outlet. Maybe thats just me. I was grateful. As I think about it, I wonder if people just dont know WHAT to say so they say nothing. What would I like to hear as an opener? Probably, Laura, Im so sorry about Hannah. That feels right. What about the next time? How long do you ask? 3 months? 6 months? Years? Today, I think Id like to hear, Hi Laura, you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. Thats all. The dreaded but well meaning question, How are you doing? always leaves me speechless. Knowing that you care? It leaves me feeling loved and comforted.
Posted on: Wed, 30 Jul 2014 22:19:03 +0000
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