So , I tell my father to stop the abuse, and he goes Ballistic and dials 911 to throw me out of the house. On Christmas Eve . In 10 degree weather. All because I told him he is desecrating the dead.... Which is what he was doing .... His mental illness brought him so far afield, he was saying things like: Your MOM smoked herself to death purposefully in an attempt to be rid of ever seeing me again .........the hospitals called me everyday to tell me that your Mother told them that she HATED you and wanted to die rather than ever see me again. .... And on and on, so we have done cremation with my MOM, so I ended up holding her urn in my arms and saying; you will stop desecrating the dead .... Its bad enough you saying that abuse to me , but don t put false statements in my MOMS mouth... She isnt here anymore to speak in her own defense , but you need to stop!..... Of course , he didnt stop, not then , not ever... ( btw, 3 rehab hospitals told ME that my MOM lived a YEAR longer then she had any right to ,,. She was seriously on borrowed time for a whole year .,. After seeing me interact with her and our INCREDIBLE bond of love we had, they all 3 told me they thought she hung on to be with me that one last year- hardly the actions of a woman who hated me!!!... So , my father tried to evict me into the cold at night , every night while he was here for 2 weeks after her death .,. Finally her estate cleared ( I inherited her half of the house ) and he can not legally evict me anymore ... But he does threaten all the time to remarry as soon as possible, change his will , leave everything to his new family and leave me penniless...sigh So tonight , with him slamming the phone down and saying you dont have a father , BYE- BYE... It is just MORE OF THE SAME , but it is cutting , cruel , hurtful and nasty ... Luckily , Im going to see my BROTHER tomorrow for a movie , and then well hash this over to help me over it... Oh , you thought I was an ONLY CHILD?... You are right, I AM an only child... But did I just say. BROTHER ???... Yes , I did... GOD sent me a brother 3 days ago !!!!!!.... More tomorrow on him !!! :)
Posted on: Sun, 09 Mar 2014 07:46:24 +0000
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