So... Ive made a decision. I dont normally do resolutions, but this is more of a life-change. It just so happens to fall right before the new year. From hence forth and forever, I will not waste a single bit of my energy on meanness. If youre not kind, you will not be a part of my inner circle. I used to feel like I had to keep trying, like I had to keep being the bigger person. Ive let that go. Ive released us both. Im going to spend my life being happy, and by happy I mean being kind to others and having them be kind to me as well. Thats not unforgiveness or bitterness. Its simply the high road. Im done with worry and tiptoeing around the things that matter. If we cant celebrate each other, then we dont need to be friends. I feel like the biggest weight has been lifted off of my chest. I feel like Im free of the obligation of keeping up appearances. I feel completely at peace. On some level, each of us has dysfunctional relationships in our lives, and they sure do get tricky to navigate through. There is a time to help and a time to try to work things out, but sometimes there is also a time to say I wish you the best. I shall now, love you from a distance since it isnt possible for me to love you up close. Seriously, I feel so at peace. This is not a rant. This is a really healthy way for me to bring in the new year. In fact, its a really healthy way for me to live my life. A while back, I couldnt have done this with the right heart. I would have been angry. I would have been resentful. Today, Im just free. #ILoveYouButImNotDoingThisAnymore
Posted on: Sat, 27 Dec 2014 17:48:29 +0000
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