So im not usually one to air my dirty laundry. But i cant remember the last time I cried . My daughter never sees her mom . (On rare occasions .) She will go with her. Last week my daughter had gotten lice and happened to go with her mom . Of course her mom being a weekend parent called me out on it. She sits in my living room cleaning her hair. She partially cleans it then says shes tired and goes home. Next day. I buy medicine and clean her hair. Yesterday and today my daughter over heard her mom last week saying she was off friday . She asks can I go . I always say yes. She calls her mom. Her mom says no I got to finish cleaning your hair. Not even thinking I had it cleaned my daughter hung up the phone and began to cry . She went to her room. I txted her mom a bad txt msg no response. Her mom took her off her insurance.I asked her to get her back on no response. Shes given me 200.00 in the past 4 months I can count on one hand how many times shes been with her in the past 4 months. I could go on and on. Non of that bothers me. Non of it. I dont need her money. Or help , But I went into my daughters room to check on her. And I have never seen her eyes so red . (Not even when I spank her) I just held her for a few minutes or so i told her I loved her and I said dont cry no more. Shes says I just miss my mommy .its crazy cause when I was younger my mom did terrible things to me. But when she lost us to my dad . She would always come for us on her visititation days, just to see us for that hour. .and her mother cant even do that for her.( My reason for posting this) not to make her look like a horrible person . I want her to realize everything shes missing out on. We all have problems and issues , but we should always put that aside to raise our children. Even if it means spending an hour with them . That hour is what kept me loving my mom. And all her friends can see this and tell her cause apparently our opinion and how we feel dont matter. My daughter just wants time with her mom, I cant give that to her.and it Breaks my heart to see her hurt so much.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Nov 2014 01:00:59 +0000
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