So it appears as though ANOTHER friends relationship is in the crapper because one of them cheated! What the hell is wrong with people? If you want something else you need to leave the one youre with first. EVERYONE involved deserves atleast that much. Shit happens ya know, but the choice you make might make it permanent so you best be sure before taking that leap. Personally, Ive had people tell me that theyve seen my husband around with someone other than me to which I replied, ok np, send me a pic. You wouldnt believe how many random hoes sent him requests, messages, and texts to his phone after I started tagging him in my posts. Its frickin hilarious! Some people have a need to feel wanted and stealing someone from someone else can often inspire a feeling of I won. However, they conveniently forget that they were the only one competing so all they won is someone who would break the heart of the one they love. SCORE!! Ive said it before and Ill say it again. EVERYBODY talks and most are just talking shit! My husband grew up here. I didnt. Not only have I had to fight the memory of every past love, broken heart, and secret crush still running around here but Ive also had to fight some deeply embedded stereotypes because Im white and hes Mexican. Ive put up with a lot of shit and given up more than you can imagine just to stay with my husband. Honestly, 9 days out of 10 that commitment feels unreturned ...but I deal with it. For the most part, my husband doesnt do things to make me feel appreciated or special and sometimes I think Id be better off alone. At any moment, I could easily file for divorce and just collect half his paycheck without all of his bullshit. However, I made a commitment and I take that seriously.... whether he does or not. I am the one who completes me! I am able to provide myself with anything I need...I dont need anyone but myself. Its when I lose myself that we have a problem. I will uphold my end until it ends and he knows that. I was resistant to commitment in the beginning. When we got together I told him that if either of us ever decided we wanted out, all we had to do was say the word. But if he cheats or hits Ill make him wish he never met me. Seems pretty stupid to choose the latter and I dont think I married a stupid man. A selfish one maybe, but not a stupid one. So if you see my husband out and about in a questionable situation, snap a pic,send it to me, and Ill thank you for your time. Otherwise, dont bother. Ive done the whole paranoia thing before and its just fuel. Some people really get off on the thrill of getting caught. *yawn*. Ive got more important things to worry about and so do you. No one is irreplaceable ..but I AM a one of a kind so good luck with that! Ill end my little proclamation with a bite from the ever popular Frozen (cant seem to escape that movie or its song, can we) LET IT GO!
Posted on: Fri, 21 Mar 2014 15:10:22 +0000
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