So its like this. If I dont care for your behavior (or how it affects me more to the point), I will either confront or a Cold War will ensue. In the latter, its simply an issue I dont feel deserves my energy so I dont confront, but Im not going to front like were cool. In a professional environment that means I will acknowledge, but little more--Vital communication only. For example, one coworker has been playing games intended to take advantage of me being the new kid on the block. My ego is not so fragile that I need to let her know I peep game. Plus the benefit of her games is that I get more experience. I generally put things on front street when I aim to stop the BS and burn bridges--my scorched earth approach. Otherwise, I chill and take notes. Now, some have suggested that I run tell dat; that just isnt my style. Ill bring it to your grill first and second. Some say Im wrong for the Cold War; I just have no talent for smiling in your face when Im not feeling you. If I think youre FOS, Im not going to smile in your face and think otherwise. I just keep it business because we need not be friends to keep it professional, civil. Any thoughts, advice?
Posted on: Thu, 22 Jan 2015 23:13:17 +0000
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