So, lets face it, sometimes people can fall into these comfortable non-harmful patterns of behaviour. It could be following the same guidelines or making the same decision in somewhat different ways. And sure, if you dont like those behaviours or dont consider them helpful, then you can try and change them. But ultimately, theyre going to be doing what they enjoy or want to do, or else, they wouldnt be making those decisions. This isnt pressure or stressful situations affecting them. Just innocent motions. And helpful or not, whether you expect a difference or desire change, you cant change who a persons innate personality is. It just leaves everyone bitter and resentful. You can respect it and work with it to improve the experience for everyone. Or just go along for the ride. Most times just being supportive is the best way to elicit the change you desire. But being negative about it doesnt help anyone. We all have things we want to change about people. But whats our right to demand someone go against their own personality? People are who they are. And accepting that is half the battle won.
Posted on: Sun, 09 Mar 2014 02:43:42 +0000
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